⚠️ MSWI strongly encourages condom use for oral & anal sex work
This section is intended to empower you with essential knowledge for working safely, professionally, and smartly in the sex industry.
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🍑 Safer Sex 🍆
👄 Kissing & Oral Health
⚠️ High-Risk Conditions
(Spread Through Kissing or Oral Sex)
Be alert - these can spread easily through close mouth contact:
💥 Cold Sores (Oral Herpes / HSV-1)
📊 Status: Very Common
❓ What is it?
Painful blisters on or around the lips
💋 How it is caught:
Very contagious - can pass through kissing, even without visible sores
👀 Watch for:
Tingling, itching, or burning before blisters form
💊 Treatment:
Herpes can’t be cured, but antiviral medication like acyclovir or valacyclovir can reduce outbreaks, lower transmission risk, and help symptoms heal faster.
Tip: Avoid kissing or oral contact during an outbreak
🧬 Oral HPV (Human Papillomavirus)
📊 Oral/Anal/Vaginal Sex Status: Common
📊 Kissing Status: Very Rare
❓ What is it?
Virus that can cause warts in the mouth or throat
How is it caught:
Mostly through oral-genital contact, not kissing. This is very rare.
👀 Watch for:
Usually no symptoms, sometimes small, painless bumps
💊 Treatment:
There’s no cure for HPV itself, but most people clear the virus naturally, and treatments are available for symptoms like genital warts or abnormal cells caused by high-risk strains.
Tip: Use dental dams or condoms for oral sex.
HPV Vaccination available usually at sexual health clinics
🤕 Common Mouth Conditions
(Not STIs, But Worth Knowing)
These aren't sexually transmitted, but open sores can increase risk:
😣 Angular Cheilitis:
Cracks at corners of mouth — not contagious
🤒 Canker Sores:
Painful ulcers inside mouth - not herpes, not contagious
🌫️ Thrush (Oral Yeast):
White patches, especially if immunocompromised.
Not typically passed by kissing
✅ Harmless Oral Variations (Totally Normal)
These are not infections — they’re just part of your body:
🔘 Fordyce Spots:
Small white/yellow bumps (oil glands) on lips or cheeks
👅 Hairy Tongue:
Fuzzy-looking tongue - not contagious, usually from poor oral hygiene or smoking
⚫ Melanotic Macule:
Dark freckle-like spot in the mouth -harmless
💧 Mucocele:
Fluid-filled bump from biting the lip or trauma - not an STI
🩺 Serious (Non-STI) Conditions to Watch For:
These aren’t sexually transmitted but do need medical care:
🌿 Lichen Planus
Chronic inflammation in the mouth (white or red patches)
Not contagious — but long-term forms can carry a small cancer risk
🚨 Oral Cancer (Squamous Cell Carcinoma)
👀 Watch for:
Sore, lump, or discoloured patch that won’t heal after 2+ weeks.
Mouth pain, sore throat, or difficulty swallowing.
Action: See a doctor or dentist immediately
🧠 General Health Tips
🧑⚕️ Regular Check-ups:
Get oral health screenings along with STI testing
👀 Look Closely:
Always check your client’s mouth (and your own) for unusual sores or discoloured patches
🧍♂️ Know Your Body:
If something feels off — get it checked early
✂️ Cut/Circumcised Hand Jobs
🍆🖐️💦 Techniques for Cut Penises
Giving a great handjob involves understanding the different sensitivities of circumcised and uncircumcised penises.
Tips for Cut/Circumcised Penis:
🧴 Use Plenty of Lubricant:
Key for comfort and smooth gliding. Water-based recommended. Ample lube to avoid friction.
💪 Varied Pressure:
Experiment with firmer pressure along the shaft.
👆 Gentle Head Stimulation:
Start lighter and adjust.
⚡Sensitivity:
The head of a circumcised penis is often less sensitive to direct friction as it's constantly exposed.
🗣️ Communication is Important:
Ask what feels good – pressure, speed, location.
🔄 Vary Your Technique:
Don't just go up and down. Use different strokes, pressures, and speeds.
🖐️ Use Your Whole Hand:
Palm, fingers, and thumb for varied sensations.
🎯 Incorporate the Base:
Stimulate where many nerve endings are concentrated.
👆 Tease the Head (Glans):
Gentle strokes or circles.
🤝 Use Your Other Hand:
Stroke the testicles or the base.
Health and Safety:
💧 Clean Hands:
Ensure your hands are clean before and after the act.
🩸Avoid Cuts:
If you have any cuts or abrasions on your hands, it's best to avoid direct contact or use gloves to prevent the transmission of bacteria.
Optional Condom Use: If the client requests it or if there's any risk of fluid exchange, use a condom with plenty of water-based lubricant.
🌯 Uncut/Hooded Hand Jobs
Techniques for Uncircumcised Penis:
➡️ Foreskin Movement:
Incorporate the gliding motion.
↔️ Vary Foreskin Position:
Pay attention to preference (forward/back).
🤏 Gentle Pressure:
Start lighter overall.
✨ Sensitive Head:
Lighter touch initially, try flicking or circling the corona.
🥛 "Milking" Technique:
Gentle pull down while stroking up.
🧴 Use Plenty of Lubricant:
Key for comfort and smooth gliding. Water-based recommended.
🗣️ Communication is Important:
Ask what feels good – pressure, speed, location.
🔄 Vary Your Technique:
Don't just go up and down. Use different strokes, pressures, and speeds.
🖐️ Use Your Whole Hand:
Palm, fingers, and thumb for varied sensations.
🎯 Incorporate the Base:
Stimulate where many nerve endings are concentrated.
👆 Tease the Head (Glans):
Gentle strokes or circles.
🤝 Use Your Other Hand:
Stroke the testicles or the base.
⚠️ Important: Be Gentle with Tight Foreskins:
Some individuals may have a foreskin that doesn't retract easily or is tight (phimosis).
Always be very gentle when handling the foreskin. Forcing it back can be painful, cause tearing, and potentially lead to bleeding. If the foreskin doesn't retract easily, focus your stimulation on the shaft and the part of the head that is exposed and avoid trying to pull it back forcefully. If the client indicates any pain or discomfort with foreskin manipulation, stop that action immediately.
Health and Safety:
🧼 Clean Hands: Before and after. 🩹 Avoid Cuts: Use gloves if you have cuts. 🧤 Condom Use: If requested or risk of fluid exchange, use with water-based lube.
By understanding these differences, communicating openly, and being particularly careful with tight foreskins, you can provide a pleasurable and safe handjob experience tailored to your client's individual anatomy and preferences.
🍑👈 Receiving Anal Fingering
🧼 Clean Hands:
🚿 Wash hands and nails thoroughly.
🧤 Barrier:
Always wear a condom or latex/non latex glove on fingers. Shit happens
💅 Short Nails:
Ensure short, smooth nails. You can tear the anus/rectum easily.
🧴 Lube Up:
💦 Plenty of water-based lube.
🐌 Go Slow:
Begin very gently. Communicate with client if it is pleasurable.
👆 One or More Finger:
Start with one finger. Communicate with client if is comfortable/pleasurable.
🤏 Small Movements:
Gentle stretching. It's not race/competition to see how many fingers you can insert.
🩸 Blood/Poo:
Look out for blood and poo/feces. Stop if you see either one.
🗣️ Communicate:
Ask about pressure, speed.
🛑 Stop if Pain:
Immediate stop if discomfort. Look out for discomfort on the clients face.
Important Considerations:
🤝 Consent is Key.
✨ Hygiene is Crucial.
👂 Listen to the Body.
🩹 Gentle Aftercare (especially anal)
👉 🍑 Giving Anal Fingering
🧼 Clean Hands:
🚿 Wash hands thoroughly.
🧤 Barrier:
Always wear a condom or latex/non latex glove on fingers. Shit happens
💅 Short Nails:
Ensure short, smooth nails. You can tear the anus/rectum easily.
🧴 Lube Up:
💦 Plenty of water-based lube.
🐌 Go Slow:
Begin very gently. Communicate with client if it is pleasurable.
👆 One or More Finger:
Start with one finger. Communicate with client if is comfortable/pleasurable.
🤏 Small Movements:
Gentle stretching. It's not race/competition to see how many fingers you can insert.
🩸 Blood:
Look out for blood and poo/feces. Stop if you see either one.
🗣️ Communicate:
Ask about pressure, speed.
🛑 Stop if Pain:
Immediate stop if discomfort. Look out for discomfort on the clients face.
Important Considerations:
🤝 Consent is Key.
✨ Hygiene is Crucial.
👂 Listen to the Body.
🩹 Gentle Aftercare (especially anal).
👉🌸 Vaginal Fingering
🧼 Clean Hands:
🚿 Wash hands thoroughly.
🧤 Barrier:
Always wear a condom or latex/non-latex glove on fingers.
💅 Short Nails:
Ensure short, smooth nails. Rips and tears can happen easily.
🧴💦 Lube Up:
Plenty of water-based lube.
🐌 Go Slow:
Begin gently and communicate with client. DO NOT 'finger bang' or have aggressive motions without clear consent.
👆 One or More:
Start with one finger.
🔄 Vary Motion:
Stroking, circles, pressure changes.
🎯 Focus:
Explore clitoris and internal walls.
🩸 Blood:
Look out for blood. Stop if you see blood.
🗣️ Communicate:
Ask about pressure, speed.
🛑 Stop if Pain:
Immediate stop if discomfort. Consent can be removed at anytime. Don't guess - ask.
😮 Oral Sex 👄
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😮 Oral Sex 👄
Oral sex, also known as fellatio, involves using your mouth, lips, or tongue on a client's penis.It is the law in many countries to use a condom for oral sex.
✅ Condom Use:
Strongly encourage the client to use a condom during oral sex to prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
💧 Cum/Semen Management (if no condom):
If you are unable to use a condom, it is generally considered safer to swallow cum/semen than to spit it out.
This is because stomach acids can help neutralise some viruses and bacteria. Spitting increases risk by potentially exposing your gums or any open sores in your mouth to the client's fluids.
🦵 Body Contact:
Try not to rest your face (chin, cheeks, forehead) directly on the client's testicles or thighs. These areas may carry infections like herpes or pubic lice.
👃 Breathing & Control:
Make sure you can breathe comfortably by breathing through your nose and keeping your eyes open. To maintain control of the situation, avoid allowing clients to crouch over you or sit on top of you in a way that restricts your movement.
😮 Deep Throat Technique:
If deep throating is part of the service, try to keep your head and neck in a straight line. Most men tend to thrust more forcefully during ejaculation, so ensure that the depth is always comfortable for you.
🚨 Erection Assistance:
If a client is having difficulty maintaining an erection, you can gently squeeze the base of their penis or massage their testicles or prostate gland (gentle fingering). To help simulate an erection for the client, you can try squeezing the base of the penis or using a penile ring (also known as a cockring) if appropriate and agreed upon.
Substance Effects:
Be aware that certain substances, such as "poppers," can make it more difficult for a client to achieve or maintain an erection.
Techniques & Preferences:
👅 Variety is Key:
Everyone enjoys blowjobs/fellatio differently. Be open to trying different techniques and paying attention to cues. Only do what makes you comfortable.
💋 Use Your Lips and Tongue:
Focus on suction with your lips and varied stimulation with your tongue.
⏳ Take Your Time:
Start gently and increase intensity if desired.
🗣️ Communication is Crucial:
Ask the client/sex worker what they like and encourage them to guide you.
👐 Hand Assistance:
Use your hands to stroke the base or testicles for added sensation.
🦷🚫 No Teeth!:
😫 Uncomfortable for the client.
💥 May break the condom.
🔪 May cut the penis. Focus on lips and tongue.
Health & Safety
🛡️ Always Use a Condom:
Non-negotiable for STI prevention. Apply correctly before contact. Do not use your mouth to put it on - more likely to tear condom
🛑 Set Boundaries Clearly:
Discuss limits before starting:
😠 "Face Fuck":
Okay to say no or set limits if uncomfortable. Your safety and comfort first.
⬇️ Pressure & Depth:
Communicate your comfort levels.
🤮 Gag Reflex:
Be mindful of your own. Slow down or stop if uncomfortable. (When brushing your teeth - find out how deep makes you gag)
💦 Lubrication (Optional):
Use water-based lube for comfort and pleasure.
✅ Check the Condom Regularly:
Ensure it stays intact. Stop if it slips or breaks. If in doubt - change the condom.
🧼 Clean Up Afterwards:
Have tissues or wipes available. Make sure there isn't too much lube on the penis before you change it for a new one for anal sex. Condoms should always be changed for anal sex.
Remember: You are in control. Communicate clearly, prioritise safety and comfort. Don't hesitate to say no to anything that makes you uncomfortable and use a new condom.
💭 Achieving Orgasm (for you): If you find it challenging to get erect/hard or reach orgasm with a client, you can focus on making the experience arousing for them, or try to help the client reach orgasm so the session can conclude
😮 Oral Sex 👄
✅ Condom Use:
Strongly encourage the client to use a condom during oral sex to prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) However if you choose to perform oral sex without a condom here are a few ways to minimise STI/STD transmission.
🧐 Inspection:
Always inspect the client's penis for any visible sores, warts, or unusual discharges before putting it in your mouth.
❌ Fluid Avoidance:
Try your best to avoid getting semen or pre-ejaculate in your mouth. It is generally safer to have the client ejaculate on your body (away from your mouth or any open cuts) rather than directly in your mouth.
💦❌Swallowing vs. Spitting
(if cum/semen exposure occurs):
If ejaculation does occur in your mouth, it is often considered safer to swallow than to spit. Your stomach acids can help to neutralise some viruses and bacteria that cause STIs.
😡 Aggressive Oral Sex Avoidance:
Avoid aggressive oral sex that might be referred to as "face fucking." Try to control the client's movements to prevent tears or abrasions to your mouth and face.
👅 Shallow Contact Technique:
Try to keep the contact shallow in your mouth, using your tongue primarily on the glans (head of the penis) to make the client feel like they are going deeper than they actually are.
😫 Deep Throat Panicking: If you do deep throat, try not to panic. Stress and tension will tighten throat tissues, making them more prone to tearing.
😲 Post-Exposure Oral Hygiene: When possible, gargle with mouthwash, strong alcohol, or hydrogen peroxide to help kill bacteria.
❌ Do not brush your teeth immediately afterward, as this can create micro-abrasions that might increase infection risk.
💧 Mouth Moisture:
Keep your lips, mouth, and throat as wet as possible by drinking water.
👅 Rimming (Anilingus)
⚠️ Most sex workers do not offer to this service. If you choose to, here is some information
Rimming, or anilingus, involves oral contact with the client's anus. This carries risks of infection due to the presence of fecal/poo matter.
🤢 Infection Risk:
Be cautious of acquiring infections such as Hepatitis A or B, or other gastrointestinal infections from fecal matter or an unclean anal area.
👃 Faking Technique:
You can simulate rimming by spitting on your knuckle while lowering your head close to the client's anus. Alternatively use the top of your nose. Always wash your hands /face thoroughly afterward.
💉 Vaccination:
Utilise local health resources to get free vaccinations for Hepatitis A and B, which are highly recommended for this type of activity.
🚧 Barrier Method:
If you cannot fake it, apply a layer of lubricant before using a physical barrier such as a dental dam, a condom cut open, a piece of plastic wrap, or a latex glove. These barriers can still allow for sensation for the client while significantly decreasing your personal risk of infection.
Health & Safety:
🛡️ Always Use a Barrier (Dental Dam):
This is crucial for preventing the transmission of fecal bacteria and STIs. Dental Dam: A thin sheet of latex or polyurethane that acts as a barrier between your mouth and the anus. Use a new one for each client and each instance of rimming.
DIY Dam (Emergency):
If a dental dam isn't available, you can carefully cut open a non-lubricated condom to create a flat sheet. However, dental dams are the preferred and safer option.
🚫 No Direct Mouth-to-Anus Contact Without a Barrier:
This significantly increases the risk of ingesting fecal bacteria, which can cause various infections (e.g., E. coli, Hepatitis A). It also doesn't protect against STIs present on the anal skin or in anal fluids.
Herpes: Can be present on the anus.
Syphilis: Sores can occur on the anus area.
Chlamydia and Gonorrhea:
While primarily transmitted through vaginal/anal intercourse, oral transmission is possible.
HIV: Risk is lower but not zero, especially if there are cuts or sores.
🛑 Set Boundaries Clearly:
Discuss boundaries beforehand: Depth of Contact: Communicate your comfort level with the depth and intensity of the licking.
🗣️💬 No Ingestion:
Make it clear that you will not be ingesting any poo/fecal matter.
🧼 Cleanliness:
Ideally, the client should be clean. However, the barrier is still essential.
🤮 Be Aware of Taste/Smell:
Rimming can have a distinct taste and smell associated with feces. Be prepared for this. If it becomes overwhelming, it's okay to take a break or stop.
💦 Water-Based Lube (Optional):
A small amount of water-based lube on the dental dam can enhance sensation for the client.
✅ Use a Fresh Barrier for Each Client/Session:
Never reuse a dental dam.
🧼 Clean Up Afterwards:
Wash your mouth thoroughly after oral-anal contact.
Remember: Hygiene and the consistent use of a barrier are non-negotiable for safe rimming. Communicate clearly with your client about boundaries and preferences. Your health and safety are paramount.
🌸 👅 Eating Out
(Cunnilingus)
Health & Safety:
🛡️ Use a Barrier (Dental Dam is Recommended):
While the risk of STI transmission through oral contact with the vulva is generally considered lower than with vaginal or anal sex, it's still possible. A dental dam provides a barrier against:
Herpes: Can be present on the vulva. HPV (Human Papillomavirus): Can be present on the vulva and cervix.
Syphilis: Sores can occur on the genitals. Chlamydia and Gonorrhea:
While primarily transmitted through vaginal/anal intercourse, oral transmission is possible.
HIV: Risk is lower but not zero, especially if there are cuts or sores.
🩸 Menstrual Fluids/Blood:
A barrier prevents direct contact.
🚫 Avoid Direct Mouth-to-Vulva/Vagina Contact Without a Barrier:
Using a dental dam minimises the risk of STI transmission through the exchange of bodily fluids.
🛑 Set Boundaries Clearly:
Discuss boundaries beforehand:
Pressure and Intensity: Communicate your comfort level and ask for feedback on the intensity.
🤔 Depth of Internal Contact (if any):
If any internal oral contact is requested, clarify your boundaries.
🤮 Be Aware of Natural Fluids and Odours:
Vaginal fluids and natural odours are normal. Be prepared for this.
💦 Water-Based Lube (Optional):
A small amount of water-based lube on the dental dam can enhance sensation for the client.
✅ Use a Fresh Barrier for Each Client/Session:
Never reuse a dental dam.
🧼 Clean Up Afterwards:
Wash your mouth afterwards.
Remember: While often considered lower risk, using a barrier like a dental dam is the safest practice for oral sex on a vagina. Clear communication, respecting boundaries, and prioritising hygiene are essential for a comfortable and safer experience for both you and your client
Techniques & Preferences:
👅 Variety is Key:
The clitoris and vulva are highly sensitive. Experiment with light licking, firmer sucking, and using your tongue in different patterns (flicking, swirling, up and down).
💋 Focus on the Clitoris:
Many find direct or indirect clitoral stimulation to be the most intense. Vary the pressure and technique. The clitoris, the primary centre for pleasure, is typically found as a small, sensitive nub located at the top of the vulva, above the urethral opening.
🌀 Use Your Whole Mouth:
Incorporate your lips and mouth to create suction and stimulate the surrounding labia.
⏳ Take Your Time:
Build arousal gradually. Don't rush.
🗣️ Communication is Crucial:
Ask the client what feels good, what they like, and if anything is too intense or not enough. Verbal cues and body language are important.
👐 Hand Assistance:
Using your hands to gently spread the labia or apply pressure can enhance sensation.
⚠️ MSWI strongly recommends using condoms during sex, as barebacking can lead to STIs, HIV, and may be illegal in some countries
AKA Backdoor sex, Butt sex, Fucking (up the ass), Taking it up the ass, Getting fucked, Bumming, Topping / Bottoming, Ass play, Getting it in the rear / Rear entry.
AKA Bottoming, Getting fucked, Taking it, Taking it up the ass, Getting it in the rear, Being the bottom, Receiving anal, Catching, Taking the D, Catching and pitching.
🍑 Anal Sex
🍑 Receiving Anal Sex
🏇 Safest Position:
The safest position for you is often on top, sometimes referred to as "riding" the client. This allows you to observe the client's face and hands, giving you more control over the pace and depth.
🤚 Insertion Control:
In any position, use your fingers to gently open your anus and insert the client's penis yourself. This allows you to confirm they are wearing a condom and helps prevent injury.
🦵 Depth Control:
Keeping your thighs closer together can help limit the depth of penetration.
🍆 Condom Security:
Keep your hand on the base of the client's penis to control the depth of thrusts and to ensure the condom does not slip or tear.
🧘♂️ Relaxation for Entry:
When the penis enters, exhale slowly while gently pushing down as if you are having a bowel movement (you won't actually have one). This technique can help the penis enter more easily. Taking deeper breaths helps you stay calm. If you are nervous, your anal sphincter will tighten, making tearing more likely.
⚠️ Safety First:
During the Act:
👀 Check That Condom!:
Make sure a condom is used the whole time. Check it often, especially right at the start and every few minutes, to make sure it hasn't slipped or broken. The client doesn't need to know you are doing this. Stealthing - when a condom removes the condom is a crime.
🛑 Stop If It Hurts!:
If you feel any sharp pain or discomfort, say "stop" immediately. Bottoming shouldn't hurt. Pain can mean something is wrong, like a tear, which can increase the risk of STIs and injury. It doesn't matter if its only been seconds.
💩 Shit Happens!:
If you feel like you need to have a bowel movement (poo) during sex, it's okay to stop. It's better to take a break to go to the toilet and clean up than to try and continue. Don't be embarrassed; it's natural.
🐢 Go Slow at the Start: Go very slowly at the beginning of penetration.
This gives your body time to adjust and relax, making it more comfortable and less likely to tear. You can say something like, "Please go very slowly at first," or "I need you to take it easy at the start." You set the pace. Porn is not reality.
💔 Broken Condom? Stop!:
If the condom breaks or slips off during sex, stop right away. The risk of STI transmission is much higher without a condom. 1 Talk to the client about stopping the session or using a new condom after cleaning up. It's a good idea for both of you to consider getting STI testing afterwards and use PEP.
😨➡️🧘 Condom Stuck Inside?
Stay Calm, Don't Panic! If the condom gets stuck inside you, try to relax. Usually, you can push it out gently by bearing down like you're having a bowel movement. If you can't get it out easily, don't try to pull it forcefully. It's best to seek medical help. A doctor or nurse at a clinic or emergency room can remove it safely and discreetly. Don't be ashamed to ask for help.
🍆 Giving Anal Sex
🐩 Positioning & Observation:
The "doggie-style" position (from the back) is often suggested, but in all positions, you must watch the client's hands for your safety.
👀 Condom Application & Inspection:
Put the condom on yourself while also inspecting the client's anus for any sores, cuts, or lesions.
⚠️ Hygiene During Act:
Try to avoid getting feces/poo or other bodily fluids on your hands or near your mouth during intercourse.Many clients lie about douching.
💦 Post-Coital Urination/wee:
Even with a condom, it's a good practice to urinate afterward to help cleanse your urethra as an added preventive measure against possible infections.
🙈 Barebacking
🚫 Barebacking = Risk
Barebacking means anal sex without a condom.
It carries a high risk of HIV and STIs. It is illegal in most countries regarding sex work.
MSWI strongly recommends using condoms every time.
💊 HIV & STI/STD Prevention
PrEP – Prevents HIV before exposure.
PEP – Emergency HIV pill taken within 72 hours after risk.
DoxyPEP – Antibiotic that may reduce some STIs after sex.
🤔 Withdrawal ≠ Safe
❌ Pulling out doesn’t protect you.
🦠 Pre-cum can carry HIV & STIs.
Don’t rely on this method.
🧴 Lube = Protection
Use lots of water- or silicone-based lube.
No spit or semen as lube — they don’t protect you and are terrible lubricants.
❌ Avoid lubes with Nonoxynol-9 (can cause irritation).
⏰ Rest & Heal
Give your body 24–72 hours to heal between sessions.
Tears in the butt, urethra, or penis need time to close.
🩸 If you feel sore or see blood, take a break.
💦 Douching Tips
Douching too much can make you more vulnerable.
It removes natural protection and may cause micro tears.
If seeing multiple clients, wait until the last before douching.
💉 Vaccines That Protect
Hep A & B – From blood, fluids, or feces/poo
HPV – Linked to anal cancer, warts.
Mpox – Spreads through close sexual contact.
📅 Ask your clinic/doctor about vaccine options.
💧 Pee After Sex
Urinate/pee to flush out any bacteria or viruses.
Drink water — it keeps your body clean and hydrated.
👨 Ask About Client Status
It’s okay to ask if they’ve been tested.
If they refuse to answer or you're unsure, use a condom.
Knowingly spreading HIV or STIs can be illegal.
✋ Check Before You Start
👀 Look for:
🔘 Sores or warts
🫧 Discharge or swelling
🤢 Bad smell or visible irritation
🤔 If it feels off, you can stop.
You don’t need a reason to stop - your safety comes first.
🌸 Vaginal Sex
When working with female clients, a safe, respectful, and professional approach is key. It's about ensuring both you and your client feel comfortable and valued throughout the session.
🥇 Start with Clear Communication
❓ Ask what she wants:
Be direct but respectful.
“What are you hoping for today?” or “Anything specific you enjoy or want to avoid?”
🚧 Clarify boundaries:
What’s on the table? What’s not? Talk about kissing, oral, penetration, toys, etc.
🤝 Consent goes both ways:
You have the right to say no to anything you're not comfortable with.
💯 Consent is Everything, Always
✅ Always Ask, Never Assume:
Before any sexual activity, always get clear permission. This means asking questions like, "Is this okay?" or "Are you comfortable with this?"
✨ Enthusiastic Consent:
Look for a clear "yes," not just a hesitant nod. Consent should be enthusiastic and freely given.
🔄 Consent Can Change:
A person can change their mind at any point, even if they said yes before. If they say "stop" or seem uncomfortable, you must stop immediately.
🚫 No "Surprises":
Never do anything unexpected. If you want to try something new, ask first.
🧠 Impairment Matters:
If you or your client are very drunk or high, genuine consent cannot be given. If there's any doubt about someone's ability to consent, do not proceed.
🔑 Clear Communication is Key
🗣️ Talk Throughout:
Don't just talk at the beginning. Keep checking in during the session. Ask "How does this feel?" or "Do you like this pace?"
👂 Listen Actively:
Pay close attention to her words, tone of voice, and body language. If she seems unsure, ask directly.
📝 Use Clear Language:
Speak clearly and simply. Make sure your client understands what you're asking or suggesting.
Hygiene and Preparedness
🚿 Personal Cleanliness:
Always ensure you are clean before meeting a client. If possible, shower beforehand.
🧼 Client Cleanliness:
You can always politely suggest or require the client to shower before the service begins, or offer to shower together as part of the session.
🎒 Be Prepared:
Always have your own supply of fresh, unexpired condoms, toys and plenty of water-based lubricant. Never rely on the client to provide these.
Essential Safety Basics
Always use a condom:
For penetrative sex, use a new condom every single time. If in doubt change your condom. This is your best defence against sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
💧 Lubrication is Your Friend:
Use plenty of water-based lube with condoms to prevent breakage and make the experience comfortable for both of you.
✋ Hand Cleanliness:
If you are using your hands for any internal touching (like fingering), ensure your hands are very clean and your nails are short and smooth to prevent any cuts or discomfort. You might even consider wearing thin gloves for this.
🚨 Trust Your Gut:
If something feels off, or you get a bad feeling about a client or situation, it's okay to stop the session and leave. Your safety and comfort are always the top priority.
Go Slow, Build Connection
🐢 Start Gently:
Begin with gentle touches and build up slowly. This allows you both to gauge comfort and pleasure.
🧭 Follow Her Lead:
Pay attention to her reactions. If she seems to be enjoying something, you can continue or gently increase intensity. If she pulls away or tenses up, slow down or try something different.
⏳ Pacing:
Don't rush. A good experience is often about the journey, not just the destination. Pacing also gives you more time to communicate and adjust.
🚧 Respecting Boundaries (Yours & Hers)
🚫 Be Clear About Your Limits:
Before the session, make sure the client understands what services you offer and what you are not willing to do.
📏 Her Boundaries:
Be highly attuned to and respect any boundaries she sets, whether they are spoken or implied through her actions.
💼 Professionalism:
Remember this is a professional service. Maintain a clear line between the professional encounter and personal intimacy.
🧣 Aftercare is Part of the Service
🏃♀️ Don’t rush to leave. Offer a warm towel, cuddle if wanted, or a quick chat.
❓ Ask: “How was that for you?” or “Anything you’d like different next time?”
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